Wednesday, June 30th, 2010
I could have titled this REFLECTING ON JUNE, but I am so excited and inspired by the plethora of new flowering veggie plants in my garden that I couldn’t help myself. After a wonderful and rather dry spring, my plants that I have been growing from seed are starting to take off. I have been a bit concerned about their small size, but I think a lot of that has to do with growing directly outdoors from seed.
My efforts are starting to pay off because my potatoes are flowering, and so are my squashes!
Squash blossoms are so beautiful. They have this amazing deep, vibrant yellow color that I wish I could replicate on a bedroom wall somewhere. “Mix up the squash blossom yellow, please!”
Did you know you can pick the squash blossoms and eat them? I know… it seems a little strange. I have actually never done it, and this is my 4th year growing zucchini and summer squash. But I always read about yummy recipes with squash blossoms in them. Sometimes freshly picked, sometimes stir-fried, sometimes fried… but they always look yummy. Maybe I will get up the nerve and actually pick one or two to eat this year.
I am still not sure if this first blossomer is a zucchini or a summer squash, I really don’t remember what I planted where. It was a windy, rain-threatening day when I was out planting the seeds. Soon I will see the start of an actual squash, and then I will know. And I will photograph to share with you.
My cucumber plants are lengthening which means I need to trellis them. And I need to figure out a taller, sturdier trellis than my sugar snap pea experiment. Because, sadly, my sugar snap peas have gotten to the end of the trellis ladder and have nowhere else to go. I think they may be at the end of their flowering journey for this round. Sad.
Next time I will get a taller trellis. Next time I will give them more growing space. All things you learn along the way.
Which brings me to my reflections on June. I didn’t reflect on May, but I need to take a step back and gather my thoughts. June was an inadvertently stressful month as we really got into pregnancy talk. The real deal. The what ifs. The actual what are we doooooing???? We did not get pregnant this month, but we had a week of uncertainty and it really took over our thinking. Now we are definitely thinking about the future in much more concrete, ACTUAL terms than we were previously.
I joke with Craig about the whole P90X workout fascination. No, I’m not planning on doing P90X. I’m doing PRE-PREGNANCY 90 DAYS EXTREME. As in, get my butt in pre-pregnancy shape over the next 3 months. Running. Lifting weights. Medicine ball. Sleeping way more. Stressing way less. Eating berries and whole foods. Laughing. Traveling. Enjoying. Relaxing. Being good to my body. Getting rid of bad habits. That’s my P90X. I was mortified at the thought of being pregnant because my body and my mind were not in the place I wanted them to be. And while I’ve been repeatedly told and reminded that it will never be perfect, I know me and I know that I have to be in a better metal/physical/spiritual place.
So I am so glad I have time, and this month has given me a lot to think about and improve upon. I’m not beating myself up. I’m just being realistic. You get out of your body what you put into it, right? And for the past few months I haven’t been treating my body… or my mind… particularly well. And I deserve better. I already know a lot of what I need to do to feel good. I need to run. And run CONSISTENTLY. I need to worry less about things I cannot control. I need to forgive. I need to let go. Blah blah blah… on and on.
I need to get real about what I want, that is for sure. I have to be more honest with myself, hold myself lovingly accountable. In the middle of a work week I’m not necessarily my own best friend. I’m clawing my way along trying to get by. I’m going to have to try a little harder to keep myself active, put nourishing foods into my body, not pop open a bottle of whine (pun intended), and GO TO BED at a reasonable hour. It shouldn’t be so hard, but when you’re in that cycle/routine it can be.
On the positive side (cause I always seek the positive… really I do try!) June was a lot about starting to eat right from the garden! Radishes first. Then broccoli rabe. Then lettuces, baby spinach, and sugar snap peas. The harvest so far has been amazing. I’ve never grown lettuces in so many colors and shapes and varieties. Squiggly and wavy deep maroons, vivid forest greens, bright yellow-limes. So yummy all of them.
And the sugar snap peas are straight out of garden bliss. Screw paying $4.99 a pound for sugar snap peas from Guatemala at the supermarket! You can EASILY grow them from home from seed! And I paid $1.49 for the entire organic seed package. I planted 12 plants, gave my sister a bunch of seeds, and I still have a huge amount of seeds leftover to plant again in the fall. And home-grown sugar snap peas are unlike anything you’ve ever tasted! It’s a small miracle that any of the picked pods ever make it inside to the salad bowl… they are that good!
While I could go on and on about garden veggies… June was also about hanging out with my nephews and really delighting in their amazingness and reaffirming just how unbelievably awesome children can be. Between soccer games, bouncy ball games, ice cream fieldtrips, overnight stays, and surprise work visits, I really had a chance to bond with my nephews this month. And I also got to feed and burp my baby nieces. Granted they are less interactive than my nephews at this point, but it is amazing being around so many kiddos. It has been such a delight and encouragement for me.
June started with garlic scapes shooting up from the garlic stalks in my garden, curling this way and that. The garlic scapes are now long gone (in my belly!), and in their absense I’m enjoying an incredible wave of potato flowers.
I have no idea how long this parade of flowers will continue, but I hope it will be around for awhile. I love the colors and shapes of these flowers. I love that summer is here. I love coming home to extra hours of sunlight, warm breezes, and the activity of birds, squirrels, neighborhood cats, and even the dreaded chipmunks in our yard. Summer is such a gift. It is filled with delicious scents when you go running and take in BBQs and blooming flowers. It is easy to stay up late when you don’t get around to making dinner until after 9 p.m. It’s just so reaffirming to have a whole other post-work shift when the sun is still up and the outdoors is calling.
June, I will miss you. But here comes July with even warmer temps, thunderstorms, fireworks, fireflies, our first wedding anniversary, drinking a cold beer with a freshly cut lime on the screened-in porch, farmer’s markets, home improvement projects, vacation planning, and who knows what else.
But for now I am so content to delight in purple potato flowers.
Tags: gardening, gratitude, potatoes, summer, summer squash, zucchini
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Monday, June 28th, 2010
My potato patch is flowering! It’s working! It’s working! This is so very exciting, seeing as how this is my first year growing potatoes. And I love the fact that while something incredible is happening under the soil, in the meantime I get to enjoy the real deal, genuine meant-to-be-there flowers in my garden bed. They are not weeds! Not weeds!
That’s right. I declare victory!

The potato plants are growing nice and tall. There are white flowers and the beginnings of
purple flowers. I wonder if they will all look the same?

Ta-dah!!! Potato flowers up front, orange lillies in the back. Simply lovely. I can
officially say that I grew flowers from seed! And, no, I don’t care if technically
potatoes don’t count.
Tags: gardening, lillies, organic, potatoes, summer
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Tuesday, June 15th, 2010
Ah, Tuesday again. Not my favorite day. It always seems to have its way with me. It’s been a busy week thus far, and I’m pretty tired out for it only being Tuesday. I even went to bed early for me last night, but I didn’t sleep particularly well. It’s not supposed to be like that! The whole point of getting to bed early is so that I sleep on clouds!
And tonight I meant to come home and go running, but I took a 2-hour nap instead. And while I was napping I dreamed I was trying to tread water on a flooded road where the water was really murky and over my head. But I had a life jacket on? And there were also waves and an undertow. And I was with a dog and some other person. No potential lack of symbolism there.
Sheesh.
So when I awoke I was groggy and it was late. I’m behind on dishes that need washing, texts and calls that I need to return, a few cards I want to send out, and potatoes that need more soil added to the growing mound. I will get those things accomplished. But not today. Today I will chalk up to an icky Tuesday. I’m in my comfies and plan to try again with a better night’s sleep.
On the positive side of Tuesday, there is a ton of beauty and growth out in the yard. Our lillies are in full bloom.

Our big bush in the backyard that gives our porch lots of privacy is starting its summer berry bloom.
And even though it was a rough Tuesday, I did thoroughly enjoy “homemade” salad tonight for dinner with lettuces from our garden. What a satisfying reward. I am continuously grateful for the simple, wonderful, small things that make up the plenty.
Tags: gratitude, lettuce, lillies, potatoes, salad, spiderwort, spring, zucchini
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Sunday, June 13th, 2010
It was a wet June weekend. It rained on and off all day Saturday and Sunday. It was the perfect weekend for sleeping in. And I did it pretty darn well.
I didn’t actually get out of bed until around 3:00 p.m. on Saturday. Granted I woke up prior to that, but I read for a bit and then fell back asleep multiple times. I’m not ashamed to bask in my laziness or indulgence in the good life. After all, I’m in the serious phase of contemplating life with kids. You certainly cannot spend your Saturday in bed til 3:00 with kids. So I will do it now, and I will do it well.
Once I finally managed to rouse myself from my sedentary, dreamy state, I lounged on the couch with Craig watching USA vs. England in World Cup Soccer. I don’t know if it was the game or what, but I finally decided to get active, be proactive, and go running. I did it! I managed to go out for a run in the rain! And I ran my “usual” 5-mile loop that I haven’t tackled in over 6 weeks. I ran slowly and steadily, taking in the steady drizzle and noticing all the smells of summer plants and rain-soaked earth. It was a very satisfying run. Definitely not my fastest. But really, what could I expect after such a long hiatus?
We spent Saturday night chillin’ on the couch watching random TV. I was nestled with my book, and I was so content to just hang out. Craig went to bed and I stayed up reading. And reading. And reading. I became suddenly aware that it was getting light out, and checked the clock to find out it was nearly 5:00 a.m. I stayed up all night reading. Am I in soon-to-be-pregnant denial or what? It was so wonderful to be so enthralled in my book. It was such a summer feeling to get caught up in the moment.
Next thing I know, I was wandering around outside taking in the change in light from night to morning. It was really foggy out, but the birds were chorusing loudly in the neighborhood. Dew was everywhere but the rain had let up. It was really magical out. And I was the crazy lady roaming my yard at dawn. I still didn’t want to go to bed, but I knew I’d be miserable later on if I didn’t crawl upstairs and shut my mind down.
I love weekends like this. They are at a premium, and I am so keenly aware of how they are becoming extinct. I am so happy to be this ridiculously indulgent—to lounge around and stay up all night reading.
When I woke up again it was nearly noon, and Craig and I got ready to head out to Hollis, NH, to meet up with my sister, her husband, their kids, his parents, and my parents to watch my almost 5-year old nephew’s final soccer game of the season. It was drizzly out again. But it was a lot of fun to hang out with our nephews.
After soccer, we trudged into the gray day to head off to Lull Farm, the local farm stand and nursery center in Hollis.

I was on a mission for strawberries, but the sticker shock was a little too much for me. Instead, I settled on some beautiful locally grown shallots.

And I seriously couldn’t contain myself when I realized they had garlic scapes for sale! I was hoping. I am only growing 4 garlic bulbs this year. And I gave one scape away to my mom. Which means I don’t have enough garlic scapes. Can you ever have enough garlic scapes? And here they were selling scapes by the bag! For $2.99/pound! Do they even KNOW the street value of these scapes? Come on! They were a steal!
We bought 2 bags for us and a bag for Craig’s mom. Then we went over his parent’s house to have an early dinner and see pics from their amazing trip out west to Banff, Lake Louise, Jasper, La Push, and a million other amazing places in Alberta and Washington. It was great to hang out with them and get caught up since they’d been gone for over 3 weeks.
Not a bad Sunday at all.
When I got home, I of course went out to have a look in our rain-soaked gardens. Even without the sun, there’s plenty going on.
I spent a long while getting the lettuces washed and dried and bagged so that they are ready to go in the fridge.
This weekend was so relaxing. And despite my incredible capacity to loaf, I did get quite a bit done. I cleaned the house, did 2 loads of laundry, washed dishes, paid the bills, read a bunch, saw my family and craig’s, went to a farm stand, and got lettuces ready to go for this week’s dinners. Works for me.
Tags: gardening, gratitude, lettuce, potatoes, pregnancy, running, spring, sugar snap peas
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Wednesday, June 9th, 2010
After going away for Memorial Day weekend, we came home to our yard looking more like a jungle. So last weekend was all about maintaining the hedges and bushes. Yeah, that’s right. You gotta maintain! A little clip, clip here… chop, chop there…
For starters, Craig must have spent close to 4 hours trimming hedges and clipping back unruly bush and tree branches on Saturday. And then cleaning up all the brush afterwards. But it needed to be done.

Poor little bleeding heart trying to eek its way out between the
overgrown bushes out front. Amazing how it found a space to sun itself.
It was really fun to watch Craig go at it with our electric hedge trimmer. He was quite diligent and managed to create tons o’ brush.

He extracted bush weeds of all sorts. I mean, what IS that and where was it growing?
Now all of our hedges and bushes are looking a lot more civilized. I give it 3 weeks until the yard is out of control again.
And while I’m on the subject of chopping, something’s been choppin’ away at one of my potato plants.
So help me, if I find out it’s one of our brazen, unruly chipmunk residents—this means WAR.
Tags: gardening, potatoes, spring, yard work
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